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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Orrin_Barabor, Jan 25, 2017.

  1. Orrin_Barabor

    Orrin_Barabor

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    I recently joined this community, because I've never really participated in one. As of late, I've lost my girlfriend of 3 years. Things have been rough and I don't have many friends. She was everything to me, and we haven't even talked about it. She hasn't talked to me since. I have a very firm grasp of the stages of grief, and am unsure as to which stage I currently sit at. Anyway, I figured since i joined a community, I might as well reach out to you for support? I don't know. I don't need attention, just wanted to get this off my chest I suppose. And I hope if anyone else in this community needs help, they will reach out as I have. Thank you all for allowing me to join and being as kind as you have (well at least who I've actually talked to.) Have a fantastic day, and year for that matter.
     
  2. GingaNinja

    GingaNinja Unabashed Grammar Nazi Member

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    I've been through pretty much exactly the same thing man, rough stuff. I'm glad you've found some people here to talk to, we have some great folks!
     
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  3. aa4life

    aa4life #1 Sniper in TF2

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    Hey dude. I've gone through, flings, serious relationships, and much more. As weird as this is going to sound you're just going to have to learn from this experience and learn that you learned a lot from this relationship and what happen has happened. You need to be strong and just push through it dude. If you want to dm me or anything let me know.
     
  4. Gavlan

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    Cherish the good memories from the relationship and try to move on from the person. It's okay to remember the happy moments you shared and still move on
     
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  5. Woody

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    It happens with long relationships. It will take some time to get over, just try and do stuff that keeps your mind off it.
     
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  6. Import-This

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    Hey don't be shy if you need anyone to talk to. Don't hesitate to add any of us into your steam. We all go through tough times just that we go through different paths with different stories. I'm currently having financial problems and my dad just passed away recently. We had to do his funeral during the new years. I'm sure a few remember when I was mentioning it. My point is we all have bad things going on in our life....thats just life. Most of us turn into gaming for fun and to meet new friends. As this community grow I'm positive we'll be growing as well. Towards friendship and a community/family. Cheers
     
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  7. Drac OPZ

    Drac OPZ All the Above and Beyond Community Manager

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    I've been through what you could say the thick and thin. I am 32 years old, single with a child. Was engaged till she cheated on me, not once, but 3 times. I haven't been with anyone else for the past 6 years since it happened. If you ever need someone to talk to, add me on steam or throw me a message on here. I'm all open ears, and always willing to give advice.
     
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  8. GingaNinja

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    What are you talking about Drac?...I though we had something special :arghh:
     
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  9. Drac OPZ

    Drac OPZ All the Above and Beyond Community Manager

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    You're just my side bitch, sorry.
     
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  10. Orrin_Barabor

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    Thank you all for the Wonderful replies! I'm glad everyone is so kind. I think i will be just fine in this community.
     
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  11. SillyBillyWTF

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    Ey man, life is gonna be rough every once in a while but everything will get better with time and some positive thinking. Sorry to hear that things havent been smooth sailing and sorry to hear about your relationship. I really hope things do get better with time and i hope at least gaming with us can help take the stress off of life and cheer ya up. We're usually a silly group and i never seem to lack entertainment and good laughs when it comes to this community so i hope we can do the same for you! Just remember to enjoy the memories but look forward to making even better ones in the future. Thats what usually gets me through rough days :)
     

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